CAFCASS & The Family Courts
I have to mention this to you although I have to do it anonymously. (I nearly tweeted!!)
I had my first experience of the family court yesterday.
I was served papers to attend by my emotionally abusive ex partner.
Judge made it very clear, repeatedly, that I had no more *power* than my children's father and CAF CASS demanded to know that if he was abusive why I hadn't done more about it before.
I don't think I would have recognised it as victim blaming if It wasn't for you.
First time I have stood up for myself in 13 years.
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