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Our responses:

• The Harvey Weinstein Allegations (10/31/2017)
• Michael Beck: Why labelling men who kill as ‘non-violen’t is irresponsible journalism (8/27/2017)
• The need for care when sharing images of missing children (6/7/2017)
• A woman and 2 children are murdered. The media reports about John Lennon’s former flat. (6/1/2017)
• The reality of male violence against women and girls. (Or, why the legal system is not fit for purpose) (3/29/2017)
• Mustafa Bashir given no jail time for forcing his wife to drink bleach. (3/28/2017)
• Tax credit ‘rape clause’ legislation – our stance (3/28/2017)
• Adam Johnson: “besotted” and the implication of contributory negligence in child sexual abuse (3/20/2017)
• Man arrested for racially-aggravated sexual assault. BBC headline gets confused with a carry-on film. (1/30/2017)
• Custody in Crisis – Family Courts enabling and supporting abusive fathers. (12/13/2016)
• Transforming a Victim Blaming Culture (12/1/2016)
• 16 ways to End Violence against Women and Girls (11/25/2016)
• Man convicted of owning 137 000 images of children being sexually abused is spared jail to start family (11/21/2016)
• The murders of Clodagh Hawe and Megan Short. (10/27/2016)
• The Naming of Elena Ferrante (10/7/2016)
• The case of Nate Parker: on rape culture in Hollywood (8/23/2016)
• Perpetrator of child sexual abuse walks free from court (8/3/2016)
• A rape victim is jailed in order to force her to testify. (8/3/2016)
• “Rise in child sexual abuse cases threatens other policing” (8/1/2016)
• Daily Mirror suggests femicide is a reasonable response to a ‘row’ (8/1/2016)
• The Representation of Women in the Media Matters (7/28/2016)
• John Nimmo is not a ‘troll’: Defining male violence online (7/27/2016)
• Dani Mathers and the reality of intimate images shared without consent (7/20/2016)
• The @BBC and the misuse of scare quotes (7/18/2016)
• The context in which VAWG occurs (6/27/2016)
• Women, Media and Politics – #womenmp16 (6/22/2016)
• Yet another victim blaming so-called ‘safety’ campaign. (6/20/2016)
• Neil Deller: Men who view images of children being sexually abused are high risk perpetrators (6/20/2016)
• Refusal to pay maintenance is a form of child abuse. (6/19/2016)
• The murder of Jo Cox (6/17/2016)
• The sentencing of Brock Turner is rape culture, but there is another issue at stake. (6/6/2016)
• The victim blaming of Amber Heard (5/30/2016)
• .@BBC misusing the term ‘child porn’. Again. (5/30/2016)
• “What fathers think of their daughters boyfriends” meme is simply misogynistic (5/25/2016)
• “Viewing illegal images does not cause harm or additional abuse” – Our response (5/16/2016)
• Associated Press will no longer be using the term ‘child prostitute’ (4/13/2016)
• Is it legal to reveal the identity of child victims of sexual abuse? (3/29/2016)
• Defining Consent: The Case of Jennifer Staines (3/24/2016)
• Man sentenced to jail on weekends for violent sexual assault (3/24/2016)
• .@BBCSport confuses child sexual abuse with throwing a football game. (3/13/2016)
• David Dinsmore, former Sun editor guilty of breaching Sexual Offences Act (3/9/2016)
• Just another example – in Australia – relating to revenge porn & classic victim blaming (2/27/2016)
• “Who is Daniel Holtzclaw” : on media taking responsibility for supporting rape culture (2/18/2016)
• “2 dead in Warner Robins Valentine’s Day domestic dispute” (2/18/2016)
• .@ecotricity “responds” to concerns about their support for Julian Assange (2/14/2016)
• Things which are not “affairs”: the case of Adam Osborne. (2/12/2016)
• What are the acceptable excuses for child rape – the case of Luke Grender (2/9/2016)
• North Wales Police are confused about who’s responsible for domestic violence (2/6/2016)
• .@ecotricity comes out in support of rape culture (2/5/2016)
• Murder is NOT a ‘domestic incident’ (2/5/2016)
• Soldier who committed domestic violence given suspended sentence due to his ‘promotion prospects’ (1/27/2016)
• Bristol Post call child sexual abuse a “sex romp” (1/25/2016)
• Dear Court News UK : child sexual abuse is not “kinky sex” (1/25/2016)
• A master class in how not to write about the sexual abuse of a child by Bath Chronicle (1/25/2016)
• Bedford Police #rightchoice campaign holds victims responsible for domestic violence (12/27/2015)
• Some of the responses to @bedspolice victim blaming campaign (12/23/2015)
• Police Officer defends victim blaming campaign (12/23/2015)
• Bedfordshire Police (@bedspolice) blame victims of rape for not making the #rightchoice (12/19/2015)
• South Yorkshire Police (@syptweet) conflate rape with eating too much chocolate (12/19/2015)
• The BBC: still using the term ‘child porn’ (12/17/2015)
• West Midlands Police (@WMPolice) utterly irresponsible domestic violence campaign (12/16/2015)
• Some thoughts on the media’s repeated use of the image of Daniel Holtzclaw crying during his conviction. (12/15/2015)
• Justin Bieber and the small issue of stalking and harassment (12/13/2015)
• Officer Daniel Holtzclaw has been found guilty of rape. (12/12/2015)
• .@nbcchicago You mean child sexual abuse, not ‘sex acts’. (12/10/2015)
• Dear @Independent, Nicki Minaj is not responsible for the actions of her brother. Name him. (12/5/2015)
• Women only matter as possessions of important men. (11/21/2015)
• .@BBCthree response to our complaint about #sexontrial – complete with victim blaming. (11/11/2015)
• #sexontrial : Our formal complaint to @BBCthree (11/4/2015)
• .@BBCthree #sexontrial : misleading and irresponsible (11/3/2015)
• .@MerseyPolice and the small issue of a rape joke (11/1/2015)
• The closure of @EavesCharity (10/30/2015)
• Criminalising women for failing to testify in cases of domestic violence makes a mockery of the justice system (10/12/2015)
• 11 year old boys cannot consent to sex with an adult (10/7/2015)
• #PeepleApp puts actual people at risk of harassment, abuse, stalking and violence. (10/1/2015)
• This is male entitlement: why domestic & sexual violence are gendered issues (content note for extreme violence) (9/30/2015)
• Our concerns with the #blackdotcampaign (9/22/2015)
• Patrick Kane: Another athlete under investigation for rape. This time it’s the Black Hawks fault. (9/16/2015)
• Man abducts 18-year-old Tinder date from the streets to make a point about online dating (9/15/2015)
• No woman deserves to be raped. Ever. (9/14/2015)
• The @BBCNews gets it wrong. Again. (9/13/2015)
• Another judge blaming a child for being sexually assaulted (9/10/2015)
• A Week of Victim Blaming in the Media (9/8/2015)
• Rape alarms won’t protect women from rape. (8/31/2015)
• A Call to Men & the failure to understand perpetrators (8/28/2015)
• Jeremy Corbyn and the women-only train paradox (8/26/2015)
• Ministry of Justice: More worried about perpetrators of “Revenge Porn” than victims (8/21/2015)
• A How Not To Guide on Teaching Children about Internet Safety (8/17/2015)
• Media misrepresentations of sexual violence: The BBC (7/17/2015)
• Gender is all too relevant in violence statistics (7/8/2015)
• 1/3 of police forces are “inadequate” in dealing with child protection. (7/5/2015)
• Another comment submitted to the site which replicates victim blaming attitudes (7/1/2015)
• Daily Mirror conflates multi-perpetrator child rape with sex (6/16/2015)
• What we mean by male entitlement (6/15/2015)
• Daily Mail: Still classing women as possessions of men. (6/10/2015)
• Home Office blames girls for their sexual exploitation in new guidelines. (6/9/2015)
• Press make it clear women remain possessions of men – even in death. (6/8/2015)
• Perpetrators are “high risk”, not victims. (6/3/2015)
• Victim Blaming by Police: It’s Women’s Fault for Not Leaving (6/2/2015)
• “It is hoped the relationship will get back on track.” (6/2/2015)
• Strangulation is not a “tiff” (6/2/2015)
• This Is a War on Women: Erasing Jed Allen’s Choice to Kill (6/2/2015)
• A child sexual abuser has his sentenced reduced as 6 year old victim “was making a precocious choice” (6/1/2015)
• Josh Duggar, child sexual abuse and rape culture (5/24/2015)
• This is why Martin Daubney is wrong about “laddism culture” (5/22/2015)
• #SayHerName – Black Lives Matter (5/22/2015)
• Her name was Marta Ligman. Not the “body in the suitcase” (5/21/2015)
• Police “Safety” Campaigns: Institutionalised Victim Blaming (5/21/2015)
• 170 Bikers Charged in Melee With Roots in ’60s (5/19/2015)
• Victims of Domestic Violence own 50% of the responsibility (5/14/2015)
• Her name is Claire O’Connor not “the body in the boot” (5/14/2015)
• Katie Hopkins makes rape threat. (5/11/2015)
• Richard Littlejohn, Jimmy Savile & the Need for an Independent Press Commission (5/6/2015)
• Rapists are not “sex pests” (5/5/2015)
• Martin Daubney misses the point completely when talking about sexual harassment (4/30/2015)
• CEOP victim blame a child in video to end child sexual exploitation (4/24/2015)
• Katie Hopkins & the need for an independent media complaints commission (4/19/2015)
• George Galloway makes his position on VAWG clear: (4/10/2015)
• A 3 year old child is responsible for her own rape. (content note) (4/10/2015)
• “Go From Victim to Survivor” (4/2/2015)
• .@BBCNews *finally* uses appropriate language (3/21/2015)
• Suspects being investigated for rape and other forms of sexual violence do not require anonymity (3/20/2015)
• Besotted vs Controlling (3/18/2015)
• .@StaffsPolice undermine their rape campaign with 1 victim-blaming tweet (3/17/2015)
• Our campaign demands for the General Election (3/11/2015)
• That “blue & black” dress and domestic violence awareness campaigns (3/11/2015)
• Sue Cook vs Nick Ross: The Tale of Two Crimewatch Presenters (3/10/2015)
• Counselling, Perpetrators and Women’s Safety (3/6/2015)
• Through a rapist’s eyes (3/4/2015)
• Child Sexual Exploitation – Groundhog Day (3/3/2015)
• The Government’s domestic policy on violence against women and girls is lagging behind its efforts abroad, says Human Rights Committee (2/19/2015)
• Mandatory training for judges in domestic and sexual violence and abuse. (2/13/2015)
• We urge a police investigation into Manchester United Players ‘Sex Tape’ (2/9/2015)
• Violent man attacks wife. Media blame her breasts. (1/30/2015)
• Police and Domestic Violence: What we’re not talking about (1/27/2015)
• FGM and Medical Ethics (1/26/2015)
• Man kills woman. Media blame woman. Police remain baffled. (1/20/2015)
• Celebrity Big Brother: Sexual assault is not an “explosive drama” (1/11/2015)
• We support Ann Coffey’s amendments to remove the term ‘child prostitute’ from legislation (1/6/2015)
• Holiday! (12/23/2014)
• Ronnie Moore of Hartlepool FC compares rape to a mistake (12/21/2014)
• The Scottish Sun: How to blame children for their sexual abuse (content note) (12/18/2014)
• Looking at images of “child porn” is child sexual abuse (12/18/2014)
• Family Annihilators: Demonstrating the “complexities of relationships” (12/17/2014)
• Devon & Cornwall Police’s brilliant anti-rape campaign: (12/17/2014)
• The term “fondling” minimises sexual assault (12/15/2014)
• Bristol Post gets it wrong with the “respectable family man” myth (12/12/2014)
• Rape is not a crime about sex: It is about male entitlement and power (12/12/2014)
• The Mirror Gives a How-Not-To Guide on Writing about VAWG (12/11/2014)
• What do we mean by saying ‘a brutal rape’? (12/8/2014)
• “There are no ‘blurred lines’ or grey areas.”: or why attending a White Ribbon March doesn’t make you a good guy. (12/6/2014)
• Viewing images of child sexual abuse is child sexual abuse. (12/5/2014)
• Demanding a rape victim report to the police is abusive behaviour (11/25/2014)
• This is rape culture: Comments submitted to the site (11/14/2014)
• We cannot support Topshop’s new jewellery to raise money for the EDV Global Foundation (11/8/2014)
• What motives for violence are we prepared to acknowledge and what do we avoid? (10/31/2014)
• We need a nuanced discussion of rape culture (10/21/2014)
• What if she were your mother? Your daughter? (10/20/2014)
• Responding to Rape Apologism in Women (10/17/2014)
• Rape Culture in Action: A Response to a Comment (10/17/2014)
• John Grisham: Viewing Images of Abused Children isn’t Abuse (10/16/2014)
• Barnardos is accused of blaming a victim for their sexual abuse (10/16/2014)
• Why doesn’t she just leave? (10/16/2014)
• The Reality of Ritual Abuse (10/14/2014)
• Women In Prison ‘Debate’ (10/9/2014)
• Jennifer Lawrence was a victim of sexual violence; not “revenge porn” (10/8/2014)
• The Power of Derailing Political Discussions about Male Violence (10/8/2014)
• #WakeUpCall campaign : Language Matters (10/7/2014)
• Celebrity Big Brother & David Lee Travis (10/6/2014)
• The New Excuse for Fatal Male Violence: “Trust Issues” (10/1/2014)
• Forced Marriage: Who are the experts? (9/28/2014)
• The Good Men Project (9/28/2014)
• @CRASAC : Price of Honour: Exploring the Issues of Sexual Violence within South Asian Communities in Coventry. (9/26/2014)
• David Aaronovitch’s and the “Classic Panic” over Child Sexual Abuse (7/11/2014)
• Press Release: Potential Inquiry into Child Sexual Exploitation in Westminister (7/7/2014)
• This thing about feminist self-defence (7/3/2014)
• Jimmy Savile – Excuses, Cover-ups and Ignorance. (6/26/2014)
• #MoralMaze – How can we help more rapists get away with rape? (6/26/2014)
• Sexual Pleasure & Orgasm during abuse and / or rape. (6/24/2014)
• Victim Blaming: A response to a comment submitted to our site. (6/23/2014)
• Barriers to Reporting – “those women” and “those men” (6/19/2014)
• Barriers Continue to Thwart Victims Of Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse From Accessing Services (6/10/2014)
• Ally Fogg and Naming the Problem (6/7/2014)
• The BBC and reporting male violence…Again (6/5/2014)
• Training Evaluations – Nottingham (5/29/2014)
• We need to talk about men’s violence. (5/20/2014)
• Max Clifford has been convicted (5/2/2014)
• Newsnight coverage of the Max Clifford verdict (4/30/2014)
• Three cheers for the reduction in Violent Crime! Hip Hip…Oh. Wait. (4/23/2014)
• Sexual Violence: Taking control of a person’s emotional, mental, and physical person by not only the perpetrator but by society (4/17/2014)
• Holding our politicians accountable (4/15/2014)
• Professionals working with those who have experienced abuse – Survey Results (4/9/2014)
• Consent: Defining Reasonable Belief (4/8/2014)
• Vogue Italy target Domestic Violence in new edition. (content note for images) (4/3/2014)
• An anti-rape campaign which triggers survivors (content note for image and language) (4/2/2014)
• Moving Forward (3/29/2014)
• HMIC Report – Police Failing Women (3/27/2014)
• HMIC Report into Domestic Abuse (3/27/2014)
• RAINN – when support services fail to eradicate victim blaming attitudes (3/25/2014)
• “Jealousy” is not a mitigating circumstance. (3/21/2014)

• Tired of Being Blamed
• So confused – is my husband abusing me(content notice)
• Whatever the details are, it’s always the perpetrators fault
• Severe Victim Blaming
• Random Thoughts.
• Feeling guilty about being sexually assaulted
• Was I raped
• I didn’t say no
• Response to Channel 5’s “One Night with my Ex”
• Silenced
• Family is like a terrorist cell
• Boyfriend doesn’t believe I was assaulted
• My so called friend
• I got raped, boyfriend said it’s my fault.
• 29 years ago but it feels like yesterday
• Long time Ago… (content note for rape)
• victim not recognized (content note for rape)
• Domestic abuse
• im so confused. (content note for rape)
• Truth
• was it rape?
• Blaming and shaming
• Angry at my boyfriend’s attitude towards my experience of sexual violence
• Narcissistic abuse, gaslighting, crazymaking via Twitter
• I was sexually assaulted by a coworker
• Is this rape or am I overreacting?
• Man behind the mask
• I think I was raped
• The Harvey Weinstein Allegations
• #KevinSpacey: When is an apology not an apology
• Is it unconsented if he was my boyfriend
• been assaulted by ex. friend
• I don’t know whether this was rape and I want a verdict so I can stop asking myself and trying to remember.
• I think they all knew and it had happened before
• Not too sure what it was that happened?
• “Why a gendered approach to supporting women experiencing homelessness is essential”
• Is this abuse
• if it wasnt rape, what was it?
• Michael Beck: Why labelling men who kill as ‘non-violen’t is irresponsible journalism
• Am I overreacting?
• Was this Rape
• What do I call this?
• He stole my virginity
• who’s crazy?
• .@perthnow suggests child rape is the same as a ‘sexual relationship’
• My Boyfriend Blames Me…
• No one beleives me
• I said No
• IDK What To Think
• I don’t know if it was rape
• I consented to protected sex only
• long story
• my boyfriend blames me for being raped
• I was robbed.
• I am still so angry, I can’t breathe sometimes
• Was it rape? I feel responsible and guilty for not seeing through it sooner.
• Smith
• Why are sex robots which allow men to simulate rape a bad thing
• My partner was raped and I think he needs help!
• enough already.
• I was raped when drunk and my husband is blaming me.
• He was 21, I was 16
• I didn’t think this would actually happen to me
• Boyfriend raped? Do I tell him I think he was raped?
• He said I lead him on
• I said no like five times to my husbands best friend but I didn’t stop him
• The need for care when sharing images of missing children
• A woman and 2 children are murdered. The media reports about John Lennon’s former flat.
• I couldn’t bring myself to accept that I was raped
• I said no but still let it happen to get it over with
• Survivors Voices
• catalyst for change by @northern_thirty
• Sulking and drunk pressure mistake
• Was it rape?
• is it assault? my boyfriend is blaming me for “being weak”.
• Is It Rape?
• Was I raped?
• I said NO but it didn’t help
• Looking To Be Found (content note)
• Marital Rape is Real (content note)
• I don’t know if I was raped
• Was i technically raped?
• What did he do to me? What do i do?? (content note)
• Beginning to recover
• Raped 8 years ago…and again three weeks ago?
• Slept with a dude off Tinder. Stopped sleeping with him. Got stalked, now he assaulted next guy
• not completely sure if it was rape
• No Became Yes, and I Didn’t Know
• Rape? What happened to me?
• My ex hangouts with my rapist.
• Was it my fault? Was it even rape?
• Was I raped, even if I didn’t say “no”
• was what happened wrong?
• The Games People Play
• No longer silent
• I’m still not sure how to explain
• Am I to blame?
• Scrap the “rape clause” and the “family cap” on social security payments.
• The “rape clause” – responses from women’s service providers
• What happened here?
• It was ok, till it wasn’t anymore.
• Was this rape?
• The reality of male violence against women and girls. (Or, why the legal system is not fit for purpose)
• Valid excuses for fatal male violence: love
• Mustafa Bashir given no jail time for forcing his wife to drink bleach.
• Tax credit ‘rape clause’ legislation – our stance
• Tortured and silenced.
• Is he really a victim?
• Marriage and abuse (content note)
• Rape survivor; my story in photographs
• Sex abuse
• Struggling to cope
• I Didn’t Want To Do It
• His mother texted him saying “why did you get back together with her?”
• Adam Johnson: “besotted” and the implication of contributory negligence in child sexual abuse
• Marital Rape and Domestic Violence – sought help, found more pain
• Drunk and in a relationship (content note for rape)
• What did you do
• My husband doesnt believe me
• Marriage and Rape
• Don’t know what to do
• Domestic abuse/coercive Behaviour
• A very grey area
• inner child and abuse
• I fought racism and misogyny to become an MP. The fight is getting harder by Diane Abbott
• Victim Blaming
• Multiple sexual assaults
• Was i raped ?
• i was raped and my boyfriend blamed me for months
• I said no, but didn’t fight it hard enough (content note)
• Rape ruined me (content note for graphic description)
• Ongoing victim blaming (content note)
• anonymous (content note for child rape)
• Man arrested for racially-aggravated sexual assault. BBC headline gets confused with a carry-on film.
• Incredible guilt and shame (content note)
• confused (content note)
• I’m not sure how to cope (content note)
• Lulu
• Ms – a personal experience of victim blaming an 11 year old girl by defence QC
• I don’t know if I was raped
• Grey
• escaping
• I said no but he didn’t listen.
• My boyfriend accuses me of doing gross things when I actually did not when I was raped
• My Boyfriend Blames Me For My Rape
• My girlfriend blames me for my past sexual abuse
• I’m sorry I’m so weak
• I don’t know what to do now.
• Custody in Crisis – Family Courts enabling and supporting abusive fathers.
• Boyfriend raped and then cheated on me
• School
• Transforming a Victim Blaming Culture
• Don’t be her voice: a response to the silencing of women in #behervoice
• 16 ways to End Violence against Women and Girls
• Victim blaming
• Man convicted of owning 137 000 images of children being sexually abused is spared jail to start family
• Trapped
• this is what domestic violence is all about
• Follow up to – you blamed the wrong person
• My story
• Dealing with a not guilty verdict
• i am so tempted to blame my girlfriend, but i know very well it is wrong
• The murders of Clodagh Hawe and Megan Short.
• Raped And Blamed
• The @BBC remain incapable of correctly identifying child rape.
• My brother
• Trauma theories make oppressed people sick
• Protect n Serve Who?
• Toxic masculinity and rape culture (content note for rape)
• Walk in the woods
• I said no (content note)
• My ex fiancé blames me and accused me of lying about it
• End Demand campaign
• The Naming of Elena Ferrante
• You can’t escape your past, but you can walk away from victim blaming (content note for graphic depictions of rape)
• All victims need to be rescued
• I Think It Was Rape (content note)
• I got raped again and my boyfriend doesn’t care cause he says it’s my fault
• “Low level” sexual harassment must be addressed to avoid escalation into criminal abuse”
• Intimate Partner and Domestic Violence Homicides*: Sex Differences April 2012 – March 2015 (3 years)
• I cant tell my boyfriend that my friend assaulted me (content note)
• How to talk to a woman wearing headphones – on toxic masculinity and rape culture.
• The case of Nate Parker: on rape culture in Hollywood
• Let down by the system
• Was it rape? (content note)
• Perpetrator of child sexual abuse walks free from court
• A rape victim is jailed in order to force her to testify.
• The erasure of Claire and Charlotte Hart by the media
• “Rise in child sexual abuse cases threatens other policing”
• Daily Mirror suggests femicide is a reasonable response to a ‘row’
• The Representation of Women in the Media Matters
• John Nimmo is not a ‘troll’: Defining male violence online
• Raped for a second time, boyfriend does not believe me. (content note)
• Say No More To Child Abuse, Child Explotation and Domestic Violence
• Dani Mathers and the reality of intimate images shared without consent
• The @BBC and the misuse of scare quotes
• Violated
• Victim Blaming and speaking out
• CSE is not self-harm
• The context in which VAWG occurs
• Losing the man I love after revealing I was raped and blackmailed
• Being blamed for being assaulted
• Women, Media and Politics – #womenmp16
• two poems one to my ex husband and the other to all women who have been abuse all over the world
• Yet another victim blaming so-called ‘safety’ campaign.
• Neil Deller: Men who view images of children being sexually abused are high risk perpetrators
• Refusal to pay maintenance is a form of child abuse.
• The murder of Jo Cox
• Husband shames me for sexual assault but claims he doesn’t (content note for depiction of rape)
• bullying and manipulation and how unkind people can be
• abuse (content note for rape)
• The sentencing of Brock Turner is rape culture, but there is another issue at stake.
• The victim blaming of Amber Heard
• .@BBC misusing the term ‘child porn’. Again.
• #PredatoryPeacekeepers – the importance of naming the problem (content note)
• Predatory peacekeepers and child protection, time for the UN to think globally? ~ Campaign statement
• #predatorypeacekeeprs: Action to address Sexual Exploitation and Abuse of Children
• “What fathers think of their daughters boyfriends” meme is simply misogynistic
• What matters in life to me after my voice is being constantly denied by the public bodies …
• will abuse go from childhood abuse to domestic violence to institutional abuse
• Follow up to ‘No Justice = No Closure’
• No Justice = No Closure
• “Viewing illegal images does not cause harm or additional abuse” – Our response
• Have the police done their job properly
• Not My Shame
• chance encounters
• it’s a shame that the human rights act in this country are not adherred to by the public bodies who are supposed to look after the vulnerable person
• CPS never communicate with the victim
• It’s been 10 years and it still haunts me (content note for rape)
• Were you really ever my friend?
• my life with my rapist and the pain its caused me
• Ending self blame
• ‘Uniforms’ do not protect girls from sexual harassment in schools
• fighting for my babies, when no one fought for them or me!
• No Justice Still
• is it considered rape? (content note for graphic description)
• Endangered a child that does not exist
• why are police officers so cruel unkind uncaring and pretend to be someone else isn t that illegal
• Associated Press will no longer be using the term ‘child prostitute’
• 10 years…
• UN: “Sex with children is prohibited”
• I was assaulted and my friends won’t speak to me
• bullying hate crime police not being believed making out im crazy.
• Police abuse
• WE WILL NOT STAND BY WHEN UN SOLDIERS ABUSE, RAPE AND MURDER
• Jeremy Kyle
• No support for victims
• My Abuser is the One Everyone Believes
• “Why doesn’t she just leave?” 5 subtle ways women are blamed for experiencing domestic abuse
• Is it legal to reveal the identity of child victims of sexual abuse?
• Defining Consent: The Case of Jennifer Staines
• Man sentenced to jail on weekends for violent sexual assault
• You blamed the wrong person
• who’s at fault?
• How should rape be investigated
• Boyfriend believes I carry some blame, what to do?
• .@BBCSport confuses child sexual abuse with throwing a football game.
• Not ‘revenge porn’, but abuse: let’s call it image-based sexual abuse by ‏@McGlynnClare & @erikarackley
• David Dinsmore, former Sun editor guilty of breaching Sexual Offences Act
• Hypocrisy of media in dealing with child sexual abuse
• Lack of support after assult by friend.
• Million Women Rise – #WhyWeRise
• Just another example – in Australia – relating to revenge porn & classic victim blaming
• Saying NO
• How I Feel
• I Said No He Kept Going
• “Who is Daniel Holtzclaw” : on media taking responsibility for supporting rape culture
• “2 dead in Warner Robins Valentine’s Day domestic dispute”
• .@ecotricity “responds” to concerns about their support for Julian Assange
• .@TheSun confuses rape with a “romp” (via @EverydaySexism)
• Things which are not “affairs”: the case of Adam Osborne.
• The lack of morality in the beautiful game
• What are the acceptable excuses for child rape – the case of Luke Grender
• Police and stalking
• North Wales Police are confused about who’s responsible for domestic violence
• .@ecotricity comes out in support of rape culture
• Murder is NOT a ‘domestic incident’
• Raped, pregnant and partner says I must have cheated.
• The Effect of Secondary Victimisation for Domestic Abuse Victims in the Form of Organised Social Exclusion
• I was blamed for his violence
• Soldier who committed domestic violence given suspended sentence due to his ‘promotion prospects’
• When therapy goes too far
• Bristol Post call child sexual abuse a “sex romp”
• Dear Court News UK : child sexual abuse is not “kinky sex”
• A master class in how not to write about the sexual abuse of a child by Bath Chronicle
• I’m not angry, I’m just hurt. (content not for sexual assault)
• Child First: Safe Child Contact Saves Lives
• will life ever be different bullying escalating and will i be free hope so.
• The pain, abuse and bullying for stnading up and telling the truth.
• We can be heroes? Not anymore
• When “I believe her” becomes a problem. (Content note for graphic sexual violence)
• Should is a dangerous word.
• I was stalked and my male friend either condoned it or denied it.
• Do we create our own reality? Really?
• abused by dad.
• Bedford Police #rightchoice campaign holds victims responsible for domestic violence
• Some of the responses to @bedspolice victim blaming campaign
• Police Officer defends victim blaming campaign
• Family Courts and DV
• Bedfordshire Police (@bedspolice) blame victims of rape for not making the #rightchoice
• South Yorkshire Police (@syptweet) conflate rape with eating too much chocolate
• mommy dearest
• The BBC: still using the term ‘child porn’
• Vote for the Worst Police ‘Safety’ Campaign of 2015
• West Midlands Police (@WMPolice) utterly irresponsible domestic violence campaign
• Domestic abuse: Police ‘nearly overwhelmed’ by increase
• Some thoughts on the media’s repeated use of the image of Daniel Holtzclaw crying during his conviction.
• fed up!!!!
• Justin Bieber and the small issue of stalking and harassment
• Officer Daniel Holtzclaw has been found guilty of rape.
• .@nbcchicago You mean child sexual abuse, not ‘sex acts’.
• Rape in a New Relationship
• Dear @Independent, Nicki Minaj is not responsible for the actions of her brother. Name him.
• An abusive man
• 16 Days of Activism: What you can do to support women’s services!
• 25 November: UN Day for the Elimination of Violence Against Women
• Sexual assault survivor who was victim blamed by a close friend. Need some advice please/
• Women only matter as possessions of important men.
• I was raped (content note for graphic description of rape)
• Victim-blaming as daytime entertainment on The Jeremy Kyle Show
• .@BBCthree response to our complaint about #sexontrial – complete with victim blaming.
• From ages 10 to teen years, classmates abused me. No one stopped it.
• “Is This Rape? Sex on Trial” – a critique
• Never thought that police could treat you so badly again and again
• #sexontrial : Our formal complaint to @BBCthree
• angry at #sexontrail
• .@BBCthree #sexontrial : misleading and irresponsible
• .@MerseyPolice and the small issue of a rape joke
• The closure of @EavesCharity
• next of kin 2
• When somebody does something bad to you.
• Victim blaming
• Criminalising women for failing to testify in cases of domestic violence makes a mockery of the justice system
• The Harsh Hands Of The System
• 11 year old boys cannot consent to sex with an adult
• #PeepleApp puts actual people at risk of harassment, abuse, stalking and violence.
• This is male entitlement: why domestic & sexual violence are gendered issues (content note for extreme violence)
• Serial abuser of women
• Black Dot Awareness Campaign: Irreparable Damage
• Our concerns with the #blackdotcampaign
• Join the dots
• Patrick Kane: Another athlete under investigation for rape. This time it’s the Black Hawks fault.
• Eaves declares “Women in Crisis” after a 70% increase in demand for services
• Man abducts 18-year-old Tinder date from the streets to make a point about online dating
• No woman deserves to be raped. Ever.
• 13 is an odd number, let’s make it rape number 14 (content note)
• The @BBCNews gets it wrong. Again.
• Another judge blaming a child for being sexually assaulted
• Humberside Police revictimisation of a rape and DV Victim
• A Week of Victim Blaming in the Media
• On my therapist
• Thanks for kicking me while I was down
• Assault
• victim blaming at its worst
• Farewell to Denise Marshall
• Believing the unbelievable
• Rape alarms won’t protect women from rape.
• “1 year old pet servived being shot in the mouth
• Too scared to say this to your face!!
• A Call to Men & the failure to understand perpetrators
• ‘In the public interest.’ Victims deserve public interest too.
• Jeremy Corbyn and the women-only train paradox
• Ministry of Justice: More worried about perpetrators of “Revenge Porn” than victims
• next of kin
• Raped by Mr Floppy (content note)
• A How Not To Guide on Teaching Children about Internet Safety
• There’s no allegedly about this rape.
• The Term “Historical Abuse” – From The Viewpoint of an Abuse Survivor. (content note)
• Oh captain, my captain.
• Sanctioned Jobseekers With Mental Health Problems Are Not ‘Vulnerable’, Says DWP
• you say im crazy……
• Ted Heath, Jonathan King and the role of The Spectators…
• “Witch hunts”, howling mobs” and “Hitler’s dreams”: how a rational journalist reacts to police investigating historic child sexual abuse.
• Witch hunt is the stuff of Hitlers dreams
• Mary Ann Nichols, Annie Chapman, Elizabeth Stride, Catherine Eddowes, Mary Jane Kelly
• The Chivalrous Violation of Women’s Bodies by @WomenCanSee
• Roll up, roll up and gawp at Jack’s victims
• We’ve reported @ fucktyler for inciting harassment and threats of violence.
• just one of many moments
• Dapper Laughs & the demand to be “educated” about rape culture
• male violence explained by my boss
• i was raped and my boyfriend blames me
• Raping a child and again as an adult being blamed for both
• Forced to Keep the name of my Rapist
• Rape is never a “victimless crime”
• Richard Dawkins, Julian Assange and the case of the missing dictionary
• Media misrepresentations of sexual violence: The BBC
• bullying and being blamed by the bullies
• Why not him?
• Ruth’s Story
• Victim Blaming a mother
• Hit me more why don’t you
• Things which constitute assault: drugging your girlfriend
• The faceless woman
• Gender is all too relevant in violence statistics
• Domestic Violence ends with the murder of an infant
• Mark Zuckerberg: Supporting male violence through the “legal name” policy
• 1/3 of police forces are “inadequate” in dealing with child protection.
• Grinning thug who fractured girlfriend’s skull after she ended relationship walks free
• still not being believed
• Complex Trauma theorists are victim blaming
• Another comment submitted to the site which replicates victim blaming attitudes
• Please help!
• The Metro conflates child rape with an affair
• Stranger rape may be rare but they are not ‘one-off’ incidents
• #AskELJames Excusing Male Violence
• Verbal abuse, emotional rape (content note)
• Boyfriend believe rape was my fault
• Blamed in online forum
• .@TheAge neglects some crucial information in headline: murder
• Lost without translation
• Miss
• dont label me, till you’ve been me!
• Blaming women for child sexual abuse perpetrated by a man
• The judge tells me
• The Reality of Ritual Abuse in the UK; or, why David Aaronovitch is wrong
• If we’re serious about ending men’s violence against women and girls, we need to listen to feminists
• Daily Mirror conflates multi-perpetrator child rape with sex
• When is a murder not a murder?
• What we mean by male entitlement
• Daily Mail: Still classing women as possessions of men.
• Home Office blames girls for their sexual exploitation in new guidelines.
• when will people see me
• Our complaint to the BBC re: David Aaronovitch’s programme on ritual abuse
• Formal Complaint to the BBC re: Aaronovitch’s misleading programme on ritual abuse
• Press make it clear women remain possessions of men – even in death.
• Victim Blaming in Family Court
• Close Yarl’s Wood and end the detention of women who seek asylum
• Forget the victims, save all your sympathy for the poor overworked police: BBC
• Perpetrators are “high risk”, not victims.
• Victim Blaming by Police: It’s Women’s Fault for Not Leaving
• “It is hoped the relationship will get back on track.”
• Strangulation is not a “tiff”
• This Is a War on Women: Erasing Jed Allen’s Choice to Kill
• A child sexual abuser has his sentenced reduced as 6 year old victim “was making a precocious choice”
• Josh Duggar, child sexual abuse and rape culture
• This is why Martin Daubney is wrong about “laddism culture”
• Kent Messenger promoting domestic violence myths
• #SayHerName – Black Lives Matter
• Media spotting patterns when it suits them
• Her name was Marta Ligman. Not the “body in the suitcase”
• Police “Safety” Campaigns: Institutionalised Victim Blaming
• 170 Bikers Charged in Melee With Roots in ’60s
• The Sun’s Campaign to Save Refuges
• The BBC responds to a complaint: Badly
• Victims of Domestic Violence own 50% of the responsibility
• Her name is Claire O’Connor not “the body in the boot”
• Why didn’t I just walk away?
• 77 years ago
• It was never my fault
• Father kills daughter as she has migraines.
• Katie Hopkins makes rape threat.
• Richard Littlejohn, Jimmy Savile & the Need for an Independent Press Commission
• Rapists are not “sex pests”
• Race and misogyny in music
• City Mayor encourages women to walk in groups in an effort to discourage offenders.
• Martin Daubney misses the point completely when talking about sexual harassment
• Telegraph writes about sexual harassment: implies victim is to blame for being un-married and not a mother
• Consensual v Non-consensual Porn
• Carol Malone: #NotNorman
• The problem with scolding women who drink.
• Fundraiser: Donate £1 to keep EVB going!
• CEOP victim blame a child in video to end child sexual exploitation
• Daily Mirror headline: Misleading and Offensive
• Police Scotland Online Safety Training: Factually Wrong & Inappropriate Language
• Media surprised that ‘normal’ men are rapists.
• Coercive sexual abuse in a marriage
• Fault lines
• Katie Hopkins & the need for an independent media complaints commission
• my husband raped me in my sle
• Battered Sibling is Actually a Syndrome
• Nightmare Dystopian Present (Why Lionel Shriver Is Wrong About Rape)
• This thing with ‘victim’ and ‘survivor’
• Man Kills Wife but it’s not his fault
• I was raped.
• George Galloway makes his position on VAWG clear:
• A 3 year old child is responsible for her own rape. (content note)
• “good and loving fathers” do not kill their children
• “Go From Victim to Survivor”
• BEING STALKED DOESN’T FEEL “KIND OF EXCITING”
• Letter to send to all candidates in general elections re: domestic and sexual violence & abuse
• Helping the Telegraph with some domestic abuse stats
• ZAYN MALIK AND HOW WE HAVE YET TO LEARN TO RESPECT THE EMOTIONS OF GIRLS.
• Trigger Warning for sex and consent. Below age of consent is below age of reason (content note)
• Why Do We Believe Such Terrible Things About Men?
• Unjust Justice: Why anonymity for rapists is wrong
• Please email your MP re: anonymity for suspects in rape cases
• .@BBCNews *finally* uses appropriate language
• i was failed, BUT I WONT FAIL! (content note)
• Suspects being investigated for rape and other forms of sexual violence do not require anonymity
• Besotted vs Controlling
• In the Know Campaign: why clarity is essential in rape campaigns
• .@StaffsPolice undermine their rape campaign with 1 victim-blaming tweet
• Australian Judge rules that an act of rape of a 9 yr old did was not a violent act. (content note)
• “Brave victim speaks as vile York rapists are jailed. She says “I’m a survivor” and urges other victims to come forward”
• “Mr Andrews now realises, in hindsight, that his actions were inappropriate and misguided.”
• Victim blaming by legal professionals; why the English courtroom is unfit for women and children
• Our campaign demands for the General Election
• That “blue & black” dress and domestic violence awareness campaigns
• That day and the years that followed.
• Sue Cook vs Nick Ross: The Tale of Two Crimewatch Presenters
• Sue Cook, Formerly of Crimewatch, says old, rich, famous men shouldn’t be accountable for child sexual abuse
• Counselling, Perpetrators and Women’s Safety
• Through a rapist’s eyes
• My Response to the Sexual Abuse Story on Emmerdale.
• Child Sexual Exploitation – Groundhog Day
• drug rape (content note)
• I despair of the BBC News website – reporting on Polanski (content note)
• Rape: How is it Still Allowed?
• It’s all in the body language – John Travolta at the Oscars 2015
• A ‘light-hearted look at who killed Lucy Beale’
• The Government’s domestic policy on violence against women and girls is lagging behind its efforts abroad, says Human Rights Committee
• my boyfriend blames me for my rape (content note)
• Mandatory training for judges in domestic and sexual violence and abuse.
• I was raped (content note)
• Sexual assaults not worth investigating
• We urge a police investigation into Manchester United Players ‘Sex Tape’
• Boyfriend is blaming me
• Pipe down David Osborne
• Domestic Violence in 50 Shades of Grey
• Dare Not Speak It’s Name.
• A response to Mary-Lou Stephens and her Huffpost article, “The One Big, Not-So-Secret Secret of a Happy Relationship
• Sarah Vine and rape apologism
• Violent man attacks wife. Media blame her breasts.
• Poor Gary Glitter was in a “bad place”
• Former Lidl Manager who beheaded his wife after ‘snapping like a stick’ is jailed.
• Ongoing victim of dv
• Police and Domestic Violence: What we’re not talking about
• MRS
• FGM and Medical Ethics
• The Sun shifting the focus onto perp’s wife who stayed
• BBC describes a woman reporting rape as making a “confession”
• Man kills woman. Media blame woman. Police remain baffled.
• “I wish you’d wear more clothing”
• Draft letter to complain to Attorney General about Stuart Kerner ***UPDATE***
• Girl, 15, kills brother. Police are baffled.
• Trying to rebuild my identity
• Men Are The New Women?
• Blame shifting headline following Jeremy Jackson’s sexual assault of Chloe Goodman
• Celebrity Big Brother: Sexual assault is not an “explosive drama”
• A Medical Student’s Experience
• We support Ann Coffey’s amendments to remove the term ‘child prostitute’ from legislation
• Holiday!
• Ronnie Moore of Hartlepool FC compares rape to a mistake
• This is a scandal- but not in the way The Sun would have you believe.
• Open Letter To Channel 5
• Why I’m sceptical about the new domestic violence legislation (content note)
• The Scottish Sun: How to blame children for their sexual abuse (content note)
• Looking at images of “child porn” is child sexual abuse
• Family Annihilators: Demonstrating the “complexities of relationships”
• Devon & Cornwall Police’s brilliant anti-rape campaign:
• The Daily Mirror Continues to Report Child Sexual Exploitation in Rotherham Inappropriately
• The term “fondling” minimises sexual assault
• Police blame woman for her murder
• Bristol Post gets it wrong with the “respectable family man” myth
• ‘Shamed’
• Rape is not a crime about sex: It is about male entitlement and power
• Rape is not SEDUCTION
• I was raped
• The Mirror Gives a How-Not-To Guide on Writing about VAWG
• I was assaulted and blamed for what happened.
• I don’t know what to title this (content note for rape)
• Her name was Anni Hindocha: not the “Honeymoon murder case”
• What do we mean by saying ‘a brutal rape’?
• Rolling Stone don’t believe in women
• My husband laughed and blamed me about being assaulted
• “There are no ‘blurred lines’ or grey areas.”: or why attending a White Ribbon March doesn’t make you a good guy.
• Protecting footballers’ reputations is not rape prevention
• Viewing images of child sexual abuse is child sexual abuse.
• ‘Do footballers need to take rape prevention classes?’ – A Critique
• Telegraph does whole article about teaching men how not to rape while continuing to mis-educate about rape
• Once again, the BBC ignores journalistic guidlines on responsible reporting
• ‘No Regrets’ Rape and Sexual Assualt awareness campaign
• Pakistani women – A call to arms
• Melissa Harris-Perry on victim blaming, shaming and silencing
• Bristol Post and the “RESPECTED family man”
• Campus rape and victim blaming
• Words will sometimes hurt me: how the BBC reinforces rape culture
• Demanding a rape victim report to the police is abusive behaviour
• Marissa Alexander: Misreporting & Victim Blaming in Domestic Violence
• Child Assaulted at School by her Teacher a response to the BBC
• Nick Conrad
• BBC Norfolk’s Nick Conrad Thinks He’s A Slave to His Penis
• How @CastlePromotion set the anti-domestic violence cause back decades
• Jezebel’s Saartjie Baartman: The Original Booty Queen reinforces Rape Culture
• .@Telegraph blames a child for her sexual exploitation
• DrinkAware? Some victim awareness too please!
• This is rape culture: Comments submitted to the site
• More on *that* Allison Pearson rape apology piece
• We cannot support Topshop’s new jewellery to raise money for the EDV Global Foundation
• Breach of Anonymity by Sky
• wrongly blamed from social workers with little knowledge on the signs of emotional and psychological abuse
• The Art of Discussing Dead Women
• Complaint to the Metro about their reporting of the Rurik Jutting murders
• The Rotherham report- an alternative view response.
• Social work Dept blames victims
• Why?
• ANOTHER DEPOLITICISED REPORT ON MALE SEXUAL PREDATION OF FEMALES
• Lancashire Care NHS Trust delivers a stark example of Victim Blaming of Vulnerable Women
• BBC: Adhere to responsible reporting guidelines on violence against women and girls
• What motives for violence are we prepared to acknowledge and what do we avoid?
• Child Sexual Exploitation: We Need Better Training for Social Workers
• BBC Radio 2 and the Coffey Report
• Here We Go Again…… (content note)
• Judie Finnigan (content note)
• Rape victim gets herself into a ‘silly situation’
• Why does my boyfriend take it out on me, when I was raped?
• EVB are awarded the Emma Humphreys Prize!
• Howay the lasses
• Thoughts on male violence following the Pistorius trial
• Being taken advantage of is assault
• We need a nuanced discussion of rape culture
• What if she were your mother? Your daughter?
• Responding to Rape Apologism in Women
• Rape Culture in Action: A Response to a Comment
• John Grisham: Viewing Images of Abused Children isn’t Abuse
• Dear Luke
• Barnardos is accused of blaming a victim for their sexual abuse
• Why doesn’t she just leave?
• Why @SarahVine Is Wrong About Rape & Saying So Is Not “Monstering”
• The Reality of Ritual Abuse
• Forgiveness (content note)
• Letter my mother in law wrote whole family after my husbands arrest for abuse
• Women In Prison ‘Debate’
• Jennifer Lawrence was a victim of sexual violence; not “revenge porn”
• The Power of Derailing Political Discussions about Male Violence
• #WakeUpCall campaign : Language Matters
• I Didn’t Realize I Was Raped (Content Note)
• Celebrity Big Brother & David Lee Travis
• Male Violence; it’s really not as bad as you make out…(Content Note)
• The New Excuse for Fatal Male Violence: “Trust Issues”
• I’m always making an issue
• London ambulance treatment of possible date rape victim
• Welcome to Patriarchy
• Top Writing Tips on How to Screw Women Over
• Forced Marriage: Who are the experts?
• The Good Men Project
• @CRASAC : Price of Honour: Exploring the Issues of Sexual Violence within South Asian Communities in Coventry.
• WHY
• Forget race, forget gods, forget tracksuits, it’s men we know who abuse (CN images of convicted abusers)
• BBC uses language to minimise offence…again.
• The Medical Profession Still Doesn’t Take Womens’ Mental Health Seriously
• Melanie Shaw & the consequences of child sexual exploitation
• In defence of Shonda Rhimes
• Overt victim blaming on The Alan Titchmarsh Show
• Because of what I was told ‘rape’ meant.. I kept quiet for years. (content note)
• A daughter needs her dad to show her that not all men are like the ones who hurt her
• Reeva Steenkamp Was Not Killed By Love. It Was Domestic Violence.
• It is NOT mine
• Gone Girl
• Forensic Psychologist
• Yesterday at the Old Bailey Archie Reed of West Kensington was cleared of raping a fellow student.
• Shaun Wright – When will he face what he did?
• Victim-blaming: an all-pervading curse
• Reports on ‘Leaked Nude Photos‘ — Just Another Form of Victim-Blaming
• Yes, I’m angry, but that doesn’t make me illogical: On victim-blaming
• P
• Inside A Sacred Temple
• Andrew Gimson on the Conservative Home website responds to David Ruffley standing down – apparently assaulting your partner is like eloping with her.
• On @RichardDawkins – The Religion of Logic As Used to Erase Victims Experience
• Local man defends David Ruffley MP – with more victim blaming
• It wasn’t rape
• Let down by everyone…
• 50 Shades of Flashbacks
• MP says he “regrets” assault while implying it wasn’t DV
• My friend sexually assulted me, where do I go from here?
• Can (Male Sexual Predators) Paedophiles be Good (Men) People?
• Help me to #BanRevengePorn
• “Well, that’ll teach you to be more careful”
• Boys’ Brigade Leader jailed After ‘Sex chat’
• REALLY Stephen Fry… REALLY?
• “Altercation” vs Extreme Physical Violence
• David Aaronovitch’s and the “Classic Panic” over Child Sexual Abuse
• Privacy invaded by my parents
• Boyfriend was raped
• Catch your breath
• BBC : “Husband murdered wife who left him”
• Let’s have a headline about drunkenness and underpants – Wouldn’t that be funny?
• The Grey Area of Rape (content note)
• letter to my ex
• Press Release: Potential Inquiry into Child Sexual Exploitation in Westminister
• Magaluf Girl: Consent and Sexuality
• Reporting Rape to the Police
• This thing about feminist self-defence
• Barriers to Reporting Rape.
• Complaint to BBC re: #R4Today July 1st 2014
• Girls should “stay out of harm’s way”. Yeah, no.
• Ben Blakeley: A known and repeated abuser of women
• Jimmy Savile – Excuses, Cover-ups and Ignorance.
• #MoralMaze – How can we help more rapists get away with rape?
• Trauma & Recovery: Miscarriage, Rape & Domestic Violence (Content Note)
• Sexual Pleasure & Orgasm during abuse and / or rape.
• Victim Blaming: A response to a comment submitted to our site.
• Michael Fabricant, jokes, political correctness and context
• A punch in the throat.
• my poem (surviving)
• Barriers to Reporting – “those women” and “those men”
• The normalisation of gendered violence:The importance of allowing women and girls to name their experience of violation as real.
• My letter to Leadership Journal, Christianity Today & #TakeThatPostDown:
• More Information?!
• Harassment at Uni
• Survivor Privilege, Fairies, Unicorns and Other Myths – a response to George Will
• Barriers Continue to Thwart Victims Of Domestic Violence and Sexual Abuse From Accessing Services
• Ally Fogg and Naming the Problem
• Ally Fogg, Mankind & the erasure of male violence
• Abuse is not…..something that men experience just as much as women.
• Am I worrying about nothing?
• Max Clifford’s friend says he’s innocent
• Victim Blaming by Oxford Mail
• The BBC and reporting male violence…Again
• Western Morning News and their inability to report on sexual assaults responsibly
• When Women and Girls Are Attacked by Men, We Blame Everything Except Male Violence
• Sick of the shame and blame game
• Why didn’t you say no?
• Why don’t ‘those women’ just stay away from abusive men?!
• The Cause and Never The Cure.
• Training Evaluations – Nottingham
• Compassion: The Key to Raising Awareness
• Complaint regarding BBC Breakfast coverage of the UCSB shooting, Sunday 25th May 2014
• The Blame Game (Content Note)
• New CPS Domestic Homicide Guidance
• What are we waiting for?
• Men’s violence against women & obfuscation by the media
• Living in the shadow
• My partner used the internet to abuse/spy on me
• I was sexually assaulted by my partner
• They Love It When We Beg
• My Experience of Emotional Abuse
• We need to talk about men’s violence.
• Changing
• False arrest
• sexual assault? while in a relationship
• Saturday’s Sun Newspaper
• Rumors of rape
• We must stop asking the same, cruel questions of the victims and instead set our sights on the perpetrators.
• Judge says child victim is “not the victim she claims to be”
• Nagging wives? More like lazy-arse husbands.
• my real life hurt (content note: physical abuse)
• Email Submitted to Metro Newspaper on 27 things that men do that women hate
• Wright is Wrong with his Doublespeak: rape is rape
• When is ‘consent’ not consent?
• The power of words
• A letter of complaint to the Metro
• A Complaint to the BBC on coverage of the trials of Rolf Harris & Stuart Hall
• Tell it like it is (Rape Name Change)
• Rape should be re-named “non consensual sex”
• A week in journalism is a long time: the reporting of the trial and verdict of Max Clifford
• Letter of Complaint to the Guardian re: Chris Huhne
• Max Clifford has been convicted
• Jury Convinced By Expert Evidence On ‘Freeze Fright’ Experience In Rape Victims
• Newsnight coverage of the Max Clifford verdict
• Oscar Pistorius drinking game
• Neglected
• Why is my rape not acknowledged (Content Note child rape, rape, sexual abuse)
• Managing Rape Culture
• A Vindication of the Rights of Rapists?
• Writing to the Attorney General. Re: The Potential Unduly Lenient Sentence of Adam Hulin
• BBC buys into rape culture…again
• Attitudes Towards Sexual Violence Need To Change
• National Stalking Awareness Day
• Relationship Expert: Ladies, Want a Stalker?
• It’s hard enough for women to report sexual abuse without the system letting them down
• Rape and domestic violence brushed aside with eight easy words
• Three cheers for the reduction in Violent Crime! Hip Hip…Oh. Wait.
• An Open Response to Shecky Magazine: On Everyday Victim Blaming & Rape Culture in Comedy by @thebobbieoliver
• Sexual Violence: Taking control of a person’s emotional, mental, and physical person by not only the perpetrator but by society
• Holding our politicians accountable
• Rape victims: seen and not heard
• Anonymity for rape defendants – bad idea in 1975, 2010 and now
• The Problem Is You (content note)
• Alas Smith and Tones: the ongoing inappropriate reporting of the Pistorius murder tiral
• Abandoned with my trauma
• Institutionalised “Domestic” Abuse
• WE NEED YOUR HELP!
• Rape is only ever enjoyed by rapists (content note for rape)
• Barbara Driver and the idea of rape as something we can choose to enjoy (content note for rape)
• Appalling reporting on the Nigel Evans verdict by the BBC
• The art of embellishing the histrionics of Pistorius
• Street harassment is responsible for men not getting enough sexy-times.
• Professionals working with those who have experienced abuse – Survey Results
• Who, exactly, is the victim here?
• Consent: Defining Reasonable Belief
• I mattered less than other victims
• Consent in Institutional Sexism
• “Why doesn’t she just leave him?”: The result of false narratives on women’s lives.
• The Island Ape
• “Man 23, arrested over murder” isn’t so entertaining.
• Vogue Italy target Domestic Violence in new edition. (content note for images)
• Consent: A mutual, interactive process
• An anti-rape campaign which triggers survivors (content note for image and language)
• Joe Hildebrand’s victim blaming made me furious
• Studio 10 and institutionalised victim blaming by @SianSteans
• An open letter to Owen Jones: What will you do?
• Women’s History Month
• Moving Forward
• HMIC Report – Police Failing Women
• Reporting Domestic Abuse to the Police
• Unicorn hunting = assault? My boyfriend doesn’t think so.
• HMIC Report into Domestic Abuse
• Campaign Update: information from PCCs
• RAINN – when support services fail to eradicate victim blaming attitudes
• Children who ‘sell’ sexual services.
• Rape Culture: An Australian’s Perspective
• “Underage sexworkers” do not exist.
• An open letter to Ally Fogg: childhood sexual abuse is not a laughing matter
• “Jealousy” is not a mitigating circumstance.
• Another ignorant judge allowing inappropriate mitigation.
• Gang Raped at 15-Fiancee Says I Wanted It
• “Jealousy” is not an excuse.
• My first relationship was of domestic violence, sexual assault and rape
• PTSD, Domestic Violence, and Personal Responsibility
• Upholding patriarchy? Why only some women?
• Contraception: Teen girls bear the responsibility
• The Police & Crime Commissioners work for YOU.
• Sympathy for the perpetrator, but not the victim.
• The Police, Social Media & Domestic Abuse: #infocus
• A Twitter Chat with Association of Chief Police Officers (ACPO)
• Take action to reduce suicide that is attributed to the trauma of domestic and sexual violence.
• The BBC remains incapable of using appropriate language
• Radio 4 Today programme blames women’s lifestyles for domestic abuse
• A Petition to demand a fit-for-purpose record of fatal male violence against women
• Compulsory testifying for victims of sexual violence is always inappropriate
• Marissa Alexander
• Stuart Hall’s latest charge – according to @BBC5Live Radio
• Another one lost and found
• Foreign wife that never fit
• Boyfriend’s reaction to my rape disclosure
• Pistorius and Paddy Power – making a killing at the betting shop.
• Please make a complaint to the ASA about Paddy Power
• This is what feminists mean by a War on Women
• I guess it can happen to anyone (Content Note)
• Sexually abused by uncle (while in a relationship with my mom) and cousin.
• The “moral obligation” to report is rubbish!!
• Is my husband right to blame me?
• Followed, fed and forced (Content Note)
• Shamed, blamed, and betrayed
• Compulsory testifying for victims of sexual and domestic violence is Antithetical to Victim-Centred Justice
• An Open Letter to Amanda Marcotte (content note)
• News Headlines
• Safety advice
• I was raped and my boyfriend is blaming me
• Family Believes Abuser, Not Me (Content Note)
• Sharing a (tiny?) moral victory!
• Life After Life – A Review
• Shamed
• Child Rapists – How Police Protect their own.
• The Right Victim
• Unwavering guilt.
• The Police
• Abused age 4
• Reporting Rape: Never Again
• Protective Child Services
• No, it is not a ‘witch hunt’!
• Suffering Still (content note)
• Raped age 6
• Empowerment and Victim Blaming
• Family Annihilators
• The BBC and Inaccurate Headlines
• This is rape.
• Uncontrollable Temper?
• Child Sexual Abuser
• Is there such a thing as the ‘right victim’?
• Darkness Descends
• A victimless crime? (Content Note)
• The Abused, their confessions and the vital importance of “we believe you” (Part 2)
• The Abused, their confessions and the vital importance of “we believe you” (Part 1, Content Note)
• All the press does is echoes offenders comfortable stories
• The Unbelievable Truth about Victoria Coren
• Three Simple Words
• Estrangement after emotional abuse
• Stuck in The Middle With You? Not so much.
• William Roache & claims of a “witch hunt”
• Bullying – common after rape
• CPS drops case
• Parent Alienation after Domestic Abuse
• Michael Wolff Must Apologise
• Just Add Alcohol. Neknominations and the risk of rape.
• No Keir, we don’t need a Victims’ Law
• Maria Duque-Tunjano had a name
• Leaving
• I am Guilty. I am Woman.
• There is no excuse – 50 years on
• An experience of teen domestic abuse
• The Day I Totally Misunderstood a Man’s Point. For A Change.
• Rape & Alcohol – what about the perpetrator’s choices?
• Open email to BBC News online – “sexual abuse” is not “sex”
• Another Man, Another Ridiculous Sentence
• Eric Pickles – Humourless or Insensitive?
• Britain’s Youngest Mum was 11 years old [content note for child rape]
• The Consequences of a Slap
• Sarah Vine – Women Aren’t All Slappers
• Slapping the Goat
• ‘Abusive relationship’. When did this become a thing?
• Dear child eyes UK campaign
• An Open Letter to @ChrisDaviesMEP
• Child Eyes UK: Some More Concerns
• #endtabloidmags : How to Use Twitter to Campaign without Triggering Survivors
• A tale of two Mirrors – victim blaming in the press
• Five things you should know about the scale of sexual abuse in Britain and how NOT to write about it
• Feel like a fraud victim
• Filicide: An example of why our campaign is necessary
• Five things you should know about the scale of sexual abuse in Britain (content note)
• Should no mean no?
• The Tipping Point
• Raped & blamed for being ‘pretty’
• A poor understanding of the dynamics of sexual exploitation
• Dear Carol Sarler
• Robert Tiffin killed Lisa Banks
• Alcohol and Sexual Violence: When Myths are used to excuse personal responsibility
• Victim blaming & poor research in a student newspaper
• Women Prisoners: An Experience of Crime & Punishment
• Jim Davidson brags about not committing rape.
• The term “child sex party” is inaccurate and offensive
• Review of the Year: Thank you.
• Not guilty verdict for a clearly guilty man
• Reactions
• Nothing’s changed
• Review of the Year: My Reflections
• Review of the Year: Victim Blaming in the media
• Medical care, domestic violence & the impact of being a migrant
• My complaint to the Metropolitan Police
• Drugs: A Licence To Rape
• A Rapist Walks Free: Because he was Stoned
• Kind of not very good Haiku
• Notts police “poem”
• Notts Police – an alternative poem
• Gut Response
• Victims Surviving Labels
• Twitter Block Function & Victim Blaming
• An 11 year old girl has a “romantic” relationship with a 60 year old man
• Eve Ensler and “Congo Stigmata”
• Festive police campaigns, rape and drink driving
• Violence against women, statistics and ignoring gender.
• Comparing Acquisitive Crime to Rape
• SPEECH AT MOPAC LAUNCH OF VAWG STRATEGY, LONDON
• How did The Times newspaper respond to a complaint?
• Safeguarding: How victims become peripheral.
• Victim blaming is not just about hurt feelings. It helps create more victims.
• Normalized…(Content Note – Rape)
• Domestic Violence victims still need to be perfect to be deemed “Real” victims
• I’m proud that I got through it.
• BBC Radio 4 Today – the same, tired old rape myths dressed up as Flagship News
• Lowering the Age of Consent
• Paedophile: Misleading language & child sexual abuse.
• #ManWeek: My first Love – How fathers will prevent domestic homicides.[1]
• ‘Strong Women” can experience violence (or why I can’t stand the ‘strong woman’ stereotype).
• everything feels mixed up
• Thank you
• Hamzah Khan – News Headlines
• I believed the lies about me were true
• Channel 4 News & the death of Hamzah Khan
• Never call your child a liar
• The BBC remains confused about the definition of child rape
• Edwin Poots & children ‘participating’ in their own sexual exploitation
• “Underage” girls cannot “consent”
• Jimmy Savile was not a ‘sex scandal”
• Victim blaming on air
• Acknowledging Anger
• Rape Is Rape, in any language
• Victim Blaming (today’s NaBloPoMo)
• Safety Advice and what it means.
• The BBC, rape myths and damaging ‘advice’
• How can we move the conversation on?
• I finally gave my silence back to my boyfriend
• Barbara Hewson and Moral Responsibility
• The murder of Bijan Ebrahimi
• The law has failed: what’s next?
• Self Blame
• The myth of silence
• Dear LA Times, you mean child rape
• My Voice for My Friend
• Dear Young Voices *updated*
• Found My Voice
• Anti Rape Wear (content note)
• More abuse by the system that should be protecting us
• AR Wear…. Really?
• AR Wear’s Anti-Rape Clothing
• AR Wear’s Anti-Rape Clothing: Just another chastity belt.
• The Mitigation of Men’s Violence *Updated*
• He didn’t just “snap”
• The Inconceivable Confusion of Consent
• How the police dealt with my rape case
• CAFCASS portray perpetrators as victims
• The Best Rape Prevention? Change the Behaviour of the Perpetrators, Not the Victims
• The Jimmy Savile Transcript
• Research Request – Excuses, Excuses
• Emily Yoffe: ‘It’s the perpertrator’s fault…except not.” (TW)
• Guardian Article Response
• Victims and self-blaming
• Neil Wilson, ‘predatory’ and the Judiciary
• ‘Domestic Violence’ & Weak Women.
• Don’t ask why we don’t leave.
• The Scapegoating of Amanda Hutton
• Group of White Men Jailed for Raping Child.
• Marital Rape, more positive: it’s good to leave.
• Victoria Coren Mitchell’s Implication of Contributory Negligence in the Polanski Rape Case
• Strength Courage & Wisdom (Content Note: Rape)
• Marital Rape (Content Note)
• Feminist Times – a response to Taboo Corner.
• Taking action against bullying, resulted in bullying.
• No Discussion.
• Classism & Roman Polanski
• Roman Polanski: Victim/Victimiser?
• The CPS Barrister and use of the term ‘predatory’
• Abuse, Support & the ‘System’ – Part Two
• Abuse, Support & the ‘System’ – Part One
• Roman Polanski and the sin of nuance
• THAT Polanski Piece – sin or simplification?
• Further erasure of a victim who has spent much of her life asking to be heard.
• An Open Letter to Victoria Coren Mitchell and The Guardian
• On Victoria Coren’s plea for nuance in our understanding of Polanski’s rape of a child.
• Not Guilty
• Switching Off Autopilot (A Tribute to the Therapeutic Quality of List-Making)
• time for change
• Rainbow
• ‘Predatory in all her actions’ – update from CPS
• A marketing disaster with an underlying message
• Liar Liar
• Media Coverage of the Michael Le Vell Trial – Headlines
• Looking Back and Moving Forward
• Language used by Prosecutors
• Policing other women
• Nottingham Women’s Conference Workshop
• Are women to blame for men’s violence?
• What has happened to a victim centred approach in cases of domestic abuse in the English criminal justice system?
• The Daily Mail Gets It Wrong Again
• Rape is Rape, even in Edinburgh
• Not Guilty or Not Proven
• i am being abused and am trying to get out
• Victim blaming at work
• My experience with Domestic Abuse and the UK Courts
• Stamping victim blaming with Return to Sender!
• #DearCJSprofessionals – twitter, we need your help!
• On Michael Le Vell, and why arguing about rape is a waste of time
• Can’t take much more
• It’s only rape if you scream
• Not Guilty – does that mean innocent?
• Innocent until proven guilty?
• Our 3 month anniversary. A little late!
• Debunking some of the myths around rape.
• Mr. Paul Perfect
• Lady In Red Theatre Review
• A Public Policy of Inaction
• Twitter defies law again
• Part 5 – Asking is sexy
• Part 4 – To the woman unconvinced
• Part 3 – All the way – gray rape and third base
• Part 2 – But why shouldn’t she take some responsibility too?
• Part 1 – Don’t Get Raped
• Once, Twice and the rest.
• A Woman On The Internet
• Stockholm syndrome (contains graphic descriptions)
• Bullying Barristers
• £50 Donation for a student to design our logo!
• Understanding psychological trauma
• Authority, Obedience and Teen/teacher “relationships”
• Child Abuse Victim
• My Name Is Hope, And I Survived (Graphic Content)
• anger avoidance
• There is no such thing as child prostitution.
• My Experience as a Child (Content Note)
• Making Victims of Victims
• “Miley Cyrus: The Reason Why I Never Want To Have A Daughter”
• Victim blaming in the USA
• All In The Family
• Victim blaming of people with mental illness
• I felt safe. (*Content note – description of rape)
• Abuse in a Long-Term Relationship and Recovery
• The consequences of victimisation and abuse.
• “Why didn’t you report him sooner???” and double standards
• Victim blaming from the police
• #SVMyths and sexual abuse (Graphic Content)
• The prosecution of sexual abuse cases – action needed
• Advice needed – should he be upset with with me?
• Victim Blaming: Even at UK Feminista Summer School
• What do I blame myself for? (Content Note – child sexual abuse)
• What do you have to do to break the Editors’ Code of Practice?
• Punished For Being a Victim (Content Note – Graphic description of rape)
• Government need to help INNOCENT child abuse victims once and for all.
• On Sex As Affection And Validation In Abusive Relationships
• Rape in a relationship
• Why is only sexual abuse involving physical violence deemed ‘real’?
• Changes are happening – BBC article gets it right
• Our Values & Internalised Victim Blaming: An Open Discussion
• Victim Blaming in Criminal Justice Systems
• My rape was My fault
• Judgement
• Victim Blaming on BBC One’s “The One Show”
• ‘They deserve all they get’; thoughts on victim blaming
• The press blogger, the feminist campaigner and Jack of Kent
• Another article revealing attitudes in the legal profession
• Is masculinity to blame for men who murder their children?
• Guilt
• Priest
• Another Victim Blamer Sticks His Oar In – Eddy Shah
• Psychoanalyst victim blames – It Takes Two To Gaslight
• Emotional Abuse, Parental Responsibility and CAFCASS
• Letter from Keir Starmer re: Wilson Case *Updated 20 Aug 2013*
• Ariel Castro is not misunderstood
• A child is a child, lest we forget
• Barbara Hewson
• CPS Complaints
• Fighting the system
• Happiness does come with time
• Judge describes 13 year old girl as “sexual predator”
• What happens to human rights when you’re the victim?
• The “benign” pedophile
• Fathers4Justice, Mumsnet and Me: #shoutingback
• Ending Victimisation by #ShoutingBack
• My experience
• The abuser that fits into your pocket
• CAFCASS & The Family Courts
• Changing behaviour to avoid abuse
• My experience as a teacher dealing with sexism, bullying of girls and victim blaming
• Abused for defending Criado-Perez
• The victims are not the problem
• Victim blaming, attention seeking and Caroline Criado-Perez
• The ‘perfect victim’, internalised self-blame and our coping strategies
• The Silencer – an open letter to those quick to defend, slow to reflect.
• Online abuse and the shirking of responsibility.
• The Victim Game
• Questions For A Victim
• #ShoutingBack
• Concerns About the Report Abuse Petition
• No one is to blame for your child abuse images ‘addiction’ other than yourself
• 6 year old put in special needs class for sexual assault
• The Family Courts & ‘Rights’ of a Father
• No excuses for abusers
• My Mother
• As long as Coca Cola sells rape culture victims of rape will choose silence
• The Truth About Rape: It Can Happen to Anyone
• An apology
• Marte Dalelv: Norwegian woman convicted after reporting rape now loses job
• The Day I Lost Everything *Content Note*
• My boyfriend blames me for my sexual assault.
• Who’s To Blame Really?
• I can’t remember when it started.
• BBUK’s Daley – snapshot of an abusive relationship
• Daley & Hazel – BBUK & Domestic Abuse
• Blaming the murdered
• Domestic Abuse in a Lesbian Relationship
• Angela Corey – tough on crime, especially that committed by young black men and victims of domestic violence
• First….love…?!
• Guilt is a Multi-Layered Thing
• A 15-Year-Old Girl Isn’t a Scheming Temptress, She Is a Child
• On Sexism And Victim Blaming Inherent In Personal Safety Training
• Pimps & Hoes
• Exceptions and rules
• Don’t be THAT girl.
• ‘Embarrassing’ emails
• Review of Channel 4 programme “The Murder Trial”.
• all about him
• Another Day: Another Man Murders a Woman
• The Legacy of Domestic Abuse
• Nigella Lawson: DV in the Public Eye
• Saatchi, A Forgiving Man?
• Saatchi delivers the final slap in the face to Nigella Lawson.
• Silent No More
• Saatchi – it isn’t working
• @BestMagTweet and the Talk & Walk Campaign
• BBC Russell Howard’s Bad News,
• why is the Guardian still perpetuating dangerous stereotypes?
• victim blaming when reporting
• Another Reason Christian Jessen is Wrong.
• Dressed like that it’ll be your own fault if you get raped in an alley
• Jimmy Savile did not “Groom the Nation”
• ’15 – Love’. No, not Wimbledon but a week of grooming by the British media
• Dr Christian Jessen: Spreading Rape Myths
• Reframing the conversation around Domestic & Sexual Violence and Abuse.
• Not the standard type of victim blaming but . . .
• David, What Type of Headline is This?
• Attention Seeking Women Just Need to Shut Up
• When Victim Blaming Escalates.
• We need your help!
• The BBC struggles to understand the word “row”
• Children’s Services & Child Sexual Exploitation
• Just a typical week in June – ignoring men’s abuse of women and children
• Why Jeremy Forrest is No Victim
• We Can’t Help Ourselves with Victim-Blaming
• This is Rape Culture
• The Media & Language
• Victim Blaming, Language & The Media
• Internalised Victim Blaming and Mixed Messages
• This Dear Is Not For Calming Down
• A perfect victim
• National Pub Watch and Victim Blaming
• A Spectacular Piece of Victim-Blaming
• Valid Excuses for Murdering your Wife and Child
• Victim Blaming and Myths about Domestic Violence
• Apparently, Charles Saatchi is just a “bore”: The DM’s response to Saatchi’s Violence
• Social Work & Victim Blaming
• Role Models
• Liz Jones on “toxic” role models: well, she would know.
• David, what type of story is this? (An open letter to David Dinsmore, on his second day as Editor of The Sun.)
• Liz Jones Attack on Rihanna is Pure Woman-Hating
• Liz Jones of the Daily Mail Rhianna ‘invites rape’ with her clothing choices
• Clare’s Law – will it really help women fleeing violence?
• from worthlessness to worthy
• Our Whole Culture Blamed Her – Without a Word
• Why Don’t Perpetrators Have Agency?
• But I let him in
• The police became my “good Samaritans” – not the church
• “So, you consented.”
• The Wright Stuff & Amanda Lamb
• Some reflections…….
• Shame of being a victim
• Belittled, bothered & blamed
• Wigan Safeguarding or Colluding?
• Social worker
• Women Cause Male Violence
• Made to feel like the perpetrator
• Breathing In Victim Blaming
• Why Clothes Don’t Equal Rape – A reply to Maureen Messent
• Nobody Knows Best
• Why Doesn’t He Leave?
• I’m stunned by what I’ve found here
• NSPCC & Stuart Hall
• My Mother, Misogyny & Men
• To be believed
• advocate/survivor/filmmaker – www.privateviolence.com
• No, I dont deserve to be raped.
• I hope my story count for something . . I was groped and why I did nothing
• Why do we blame the victim?
• Child Rapists are not “effective” parents
• Language used about child victims of CSA/CSE
• Voice4Victims.co.uk
• My Experience With Sexual Assult
• K’s Story – Through The Eyes of a Friend (Graphic Content)
• Data Protection & Confidentiality
• Essex police & the ‘dare to share’ policy
• Becoming/Unbecoming – A True Account of Fictionalised Events
• Our Policy on Anonymity
• Do we still not understand the difference between victim and attacker?
• Playing the blame game.
• Media coverage of sexual assault
• Its all so messy and a long time ago
• Behaviour Change
• I never told anyone because I was drunk
• The Term ‘Child Prostitute’
• Social Workers Fears
• Review of ‘The Unspeakable Crime: Rape’ Published by Women’s Views On News!
• Who speaks for Lenora Fargo?
• WY Police
• Blamed for my assault
• A risk to children
• Time to speak out
• Break the silence
• The Metro, telling women how to avoid abuse.
• FCO travel advice
• Victim Blaming “review” of the BBC documentary broadcast on 4th June about St Mary’s SARC
• Using the word ‘victim’
• The Unspeakable Crime: Rape
• How You Dress
• He punched my baby
• Project Unbreakable
• TW – Celebrity comments.
• Nobody believes me because of what my abuser was.
• Shaming & Blaming
• Curiosity
• “I don’t believe it!”
• Children’s services and victim blaming
• Treatment of victims in trials
• Domestic Abuse, Grooming and victim blaming.
• my mother
• Helpful Boyfriend
• My Response to Nick Ross – How could I have prevented my rape?
• Why Lucy can never be forgotten
• Bolton News Blames ‘binge drinking’ for sexual assaults
• The Subtle Oppression of Women by Comedy
• Use of the term ‘child p0rn’
• I am that drunken rape victim
• Sexually assaulted by my psychiatrist
• Abducted & abused at age 7
• Egypt’s Challenge
• Victim Blaming Runs Too Deep
• Nick Ross and the rape apologist’s style guide
• Let’s hear from the ‘real victims’ – a response to Nick Ross
• Nick Ross – If it looks like a duck & quacks like a duck…
• Nick Ross: Rape isn’t Rape
• Nick Ross – Myth Perpetuator
• Twitter response to Buddy Franklin verbal abuse
• Forget Dinner/White Label Dating
• Supporting the true victims
• Andrew Parsons: Wife-Murderer but still a “Good Father”
• victim-blaming, Sussex Police
• F.E.A.R.
• Alice Walker on Desert Island Discs
• Why did you not…
• Child Sex
• Women and girls shouldn’t go out at night. To avoid being raped.
• The word victim
• ‘Helpful’ Suggestions
• Why men kill their children – a brief analysis of Elizabeth Yardley’s article published in the Daily Mail, 22nd May 2013
• Woman fined for carrying CS spray
• Met Police Domestic Abuse Poster
• Press Release – Everyday Victim Blaming

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